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I have penectomy last year and my penis, testes and scrotum were removed. AMA(r/IAmA)
Very few men know this, but have you tried looking at prostate arousal? Men can have multiple orgasms with proper stimulation and is unrelated to ejaculation or the penis.
The downside is sticking things in your bum. You will need a toy, a vibrator for men.